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Monday, May 24, 2010 | 8:07am

SCIENCE: Sexually Indulgent Bachelors Doomed For Future Divorce

Posted by Juan

New Study says excess sexual relationships as a single man chemically decreases chances for successful marriage

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A new scientific study has concluded that sexually indulgence as a bachelor can lead to a doomed marriage later. Dr. Joe McIlhaney of the Medical Institute for Sexual Health in Austin and co-authored the book Hooked: New Science on How Casual Sex is Affecting Our Children says his findings are rooted in the fact that sexual contact is addictive.

During sex men secrete a hormone called vasopressin or the “monogamy hormone” as its called which bonds them to women.  Women on the other hand secrete oxytocin.   This oxytocin is so strong that even hugs can cause a female to become bonded.  Well hell that explains a lot doesn’t it fellas.  These chemicals along with the pleasure hormone,  dopamine can create bonds for couples looking for lifelong marriages and stable families.

However what about the playa types?  According to his research, McIlhaney indicates that when those chemical bonds are broken, they weaken like adhesive creating a much less strong bond during the next relationship.  Over time these important chemicals become ineffective at helping romantic attractions so when the bachelor does get ready to settle down its very difficult to bond.

“The brain actually gets molded to not accept that deep emotional level that’s so important for marriage,” McIlhaney told CBN News.  “When they do marry, they’re more likely to have a divorce than people who were virgins when they got married.”

Pretty deep huh Nation?  So if you believe what McIlhaney has to say it may be wise to chose the jumpoffs a little more carefully.  Limit the side chicks and if you find that one for you, break out the chemistry set and getting popping. 

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6 Responses to SCIENCE: Sexually Indulgent Bachelors Doomed For Future Divorce

  1. 4PL says:

    I believe it everyone you sleep wit takes a little part of you with them. There’s bits of me floating throughout the east and west coast and parts of Caribbean I’m all over

  2. auchamp22 says:

    Makes sense… better watch the jump offs..

  3. E.L. Diaz says:

    This explains why I’m on my third marriage! lol…not a laughing matter, tho!
    What about women, then?. If their bonding is so strong, why do many women run around like many men do? once their bond gets broken a few times, (since it’s like superglue), does that make them less likely to have successful marriages? It takes two….

  4. TheBolB says:

    I’m in trouble then…smh

    :-O

  5. Drew Dastardly says:

    Remember “A Bronx Tale?” You only get 3 good ones…

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